Update Stream detailed Ref Counts

[anrossi]

Description

Update the detailed ref counts for streams to use CXPLAT_REF_COUNT and the associated functions. Part of #5570.

Testing

CI and local test run

Documentation

N/A

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 84.00%. Comparing base (0993493) to head (1667dd3).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #5581      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   84.85%   84.00%   -0.85%     
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  Files          60       60              
  Lines       18639    18639              
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- Hits        15816    15658     -158     
- Misses       2823     2981     +158     

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