fix: update destructured query names in presence query autofix

[j1ang3]

Fixes #1359

Summary

• update prefer-presence-queries autofixes to also rename safe destructured query bindings
• avoid autofixing multi-reference destructured bindings where changing only one assertion would produce unsafe output
• add regression coverage for presence, absence, and unsafe multi-reference destructured query cases

Tests

• pnpm run lint
• pnpm run type-check
• vitest run tests/rules/prefer-presence-queries.test.ts --reporter=dot